People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a
need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come
to assist
you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like
a
godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need
them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient
time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to
an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act
up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our
need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer
you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your
turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience
of
peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have
never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you
must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and
areas
of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life...Smile and stop here if
you're not into this final part: This is to show people you love them
and to
see how many people love you!
~Brian A. "Drew" Chalker~
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Contact information
Mark James
phone 516-835-9996
my email is dannsirs@yahoo.com