We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married,
have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids
aren't old
enough and we'll be more content when they are. After that, we're
frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly
be happy
when they are out of that stage. We tell ourselves
that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act
together, when we get a nice car, are able to go on a nice vacation,
when we
retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than
right now.
If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges.
It's
best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.
One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D. Souza. He said,
"For
a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin real life.
But
there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through
first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt
to be
paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that
these obstacles
were my life.
This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness.
Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have
and treasure
it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough
to spend
your time...and remember that time waits for no one.
So, stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school,
until
you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids,
until
your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire,
until you
get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday
morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is
paid
off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you
are off
welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until
you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you
are
born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to
be
happy.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination. Thought for the day: Work
like
you don't need money, Love like you've never been hurt, and Dance like
no
one's watching.
Ooooo
Some people (
)
come into our lives ) /
and quickly go.. (_ /
ooooO
( )
Some people
\ (
become friends
\_)
and stay a
while..
leaving beautiful Ooooo
footprints on our ( )
hearts... ) /
( _/
ooooO
( )
and
we are
\ (
never
\_ )
quite the same
because we
have made
a good friend!!
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow a mystery. Today is a gift.
That's why
it's called the present! I think this is special.....live and
savor every
moment... this is not a dress rehearsal!
IF YOU KNOW WHO WROTE THIS
PLEASE LET ME KNOW
SO I CAN GIVE THAT PERSON HIS OR
HER DUE
AND
THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP ;-)
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Contact information
Mark James
phone 516-835-9996
my email is dannsirs@yahoo.com